You know that feeling when you're lying in bed, scrolling through your phone, and suddenly realize you've been doing it for thirty minutes? Your alarm is set, you're ready for sleep, but your brain is now buzzing with information, comparisons, and the blue light glow that's keeping you wide awake.
Let's talk about the bedtime scroll—and why it might be sabotaging your sleep more than you think.
Here's the thing: our brains aren't designed to process an endless stream of social media updates, news headlines, and notifications right before sleep. When we scroll, we're activating our stress response, triggering dopamine hits, and exposing ourselves to blue light that suppresses melatonin production. No wonder we lie awake afterward, replaying everything we just saw.
What you can try instead:
Set a phone curfew—even just 30 minutes before bed. Put your device in another room, or at least across the room where you can't reach it from bed. If you need an alarm, use an actual alarm clock.
Replace the scroll with something that truly winds you down. Read a few pages of a book (a real one, if possible). Write three things from your day in a journal. Do some gentle stretches. Listen to calming music or a sleep meditation.
If you absolutely must use your phone before bed, enable night mode or use blue light filtering apps. Better yet, set app time limits so you're forced to stop when the timer runs out.
The hard truth: You might feel bored at first. That's okay. Boredom is actually a signal that your brain is ready to rest. Lean into it rather than fighting it with more stimulation.
Will one night of putting your phone away transform your sleep forever? Probably not. But give it a week. Notice how you feel when you wake up. Notice whether falling asleep feels easier. Small changes, practiced consistently, add up to real rest.
Your brain deserves a proper wind-down. You deserve sleep that actually restores you.
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