I woke up before the alarm this morning, which doesn't happen often. For a few minutes I just lay there, watching the light shift on the ceiling—soft and gray at first, then warming as the sun cleared whatever was blocking it. I wondered if I'd slept better than usual or if my mind was just ready to be awake. Either way, I didn't fight it.
At breakfast I made my coffee too weak. I noticed halfway through the cup and thought about making another, but I kept drinking it anyway. It got me thinking about all the small things we tolerate without deciding to—weak coffee, a squeaky door, a thought we don't quite agree with but let sit in our minds anyway. Maybe we're kinder to objects than we are to our own ideas.
I've been reading about the difference between rumination and reflection. The book I picked up yesterday said rumination is like chewing the same piece of food over and over, never swallowing. Reflection, on the other hand, is tasting something, noticing it, then letting it pass. I caught myself doing the former this afternoon when I kept replaying a conversation from last week. I don't even remember what bothered me about it anymore, just that I kept turning it over like a stone in my pocket.