The scent hits you first—cardamom and burnt sugar mingling with diesel fumes in the pre-dawn air of Addis Ababa's Merkato district. I'm sitting on a wobbly plastic stool outside a tin-roofed coffee stall, watching a woman in a faded yellow dress perform what locals call jebena buna, the traditional coffee ceremony. Her hands move with the precision of ritual as she roasts green beans in a flat pan over charcoal, the smoke curling upward like incense.
"You wait," she says in English, smiling. "Good coffee takes time."
I've been in Ethiopia for three weeks now, chasing stories through the highlands and the Danakil Depression, but this moment—this quiet exchange in a market that sprawls across five square kilometers—feels more essential than any guidebook highlight. A man beside me is eating injera with his hands, tearing the spongy bread and scooping up spiced lentils. He nods at me, chewing thoughtfully, as if we're old companions sharing breakfast.
The coffee, when it arrives in a tiny handle-less cup, is thick and almost sweet, nothing like the watered-down versions served in ceramic mugs back home. The woman watches my face as I take the first sip, and when I close my eyes and exhale, she laughs—a sound like bells.
"You understand," she says.
And I do. This is why I travel. Not for monuments or museum plaques, but for these small ceremonies of connection. For the way strangers become co-conspirators in the simple act of sharing what they love. For mornings that smell like smoke and possibility, where language dissolves into gesture and grin.
Later, I'll wander deeper into the market's maze of stalls selling everything from spices to secondhand shoes. I'll get lost and find my way again with the help of a boy who speaks no English but understands the universal language of confusion. But right now, in this sliver of dawn light, I'm exactly where I need to be—present, awake, and tasting the soul of a place in a cup no bigger than my palm.
The city wakes around us. Merchants unlock metal gates, donkeys bray under heavy loads, someone somewhere is singing. And I'm still sitting on this plastic stool, learning what the woman already knows: that good things take time, and that sometimes the deepest travel happens in the smallest spaces.
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