#discomfort

Is discomfort always worth avoiding?

We spend considerable time and money arranging our lives around comfort. Climate-controlled rooms, ergonomic chairs, noise-canceling headphones, cushioned shoes. Our phones remember our passwords, our cars adjust our seats, our algorithms predict what we'll want next. Each innovation promises to smooth another rough edge from existence.

Yet some of our most valued experiences are deeply uncomfortable. The burn of a difficult workout, the vulnerability of honest conversation, the anxiety before attempting something new. We pay therapists to help us sit with uncomfortable feelings rather than avoid them. We seek out spicy food, sad movies, scary stories—choosing discomfort deliberately.