#goodlife

We scroll through curated moments of other people's lives—vacation sunsets, home-cooked meals, career milestones—and feel a strange cocktail of inspiration and inadequacy. Why does seeing someone else's joy sometimes diminish our own?

Perhaps it's because we're comparing our raw, unedited reality to their highlight reel. We know intellectually that no one posts about their mundane Tuesday afternoon or the argument they had that morning, yet emotionally we measure ourselves against these polished fragments. The comparison isn't fair, but fairness has never stopped the human mind from making judgments.

There's an ancient philosophical tension here between appearance and reality, what the Greeks called the distinction between