#balance

I used to think rest days meant I'd given up. That taking a walk instead of going to the gym was "phoning it in." That skipping one morning meditation session meant I'd lost my discipline entirely.

Here's what I've learned:

your body and mind don't operate on an all-or-nothing system

Everyone keeps talking about "finding balance" like it's a destination you arrive at and then you're done. Like once you nail the perfect morning routine and meal prep on Sundays, you've achieved Balance™ and can coast from there.

Here's what actually happens: balance isn't something you find once. It's something you renegotiate constantly.

Some weeks, balance looks like saying no to social plans so you can catch up on sleep. Other weeks, it means pushing past fatigue to show up for people you care about. Sometimes balance is working late on a project that excites you. Sometimes it's closing your laptop at 5pm sharp because you're running on empty.

Sometimes the best wellness practice is simply acknowledging when you're overwhelmed instead of pushing through. Your body and mind are giving you information – listen to it.

When everything feels like too much, try the

5-minute reset